Suggestions for Removing the Stress from Family-Owned
Orlando, FL Family-owned businesses are an important part of the
kitchen and bath industry. But, according to professional trainer
and business consultant Laura Michaud, the majority of family-owned
businesses don’t survive past the second generation. While most
families intend to maintain the business when it’s passed from one
generation to the next, many fail because of family dissension,
notes Michaud, who is president of the Orlando-based Michaud Group
and third-generation owner of Beltone Electronics Corp.
“Compared to the 1970s, people today work 20% longer hours and
have 32% less leisure time,” reports Michaud. In the past 30 years,
psychologists estimate that workplace stress has doubled, she
continues. “Add to these the additional challenges of mixing
business and family, and it’s easy to understand why family-owned
businesses face their own set of unique stresses.”
Among the pitfalls between older and younger family members are
the notions of viewing younger members as children, even though
they have fully matured into responsible workers. It can be very
difficult for the older family member to let go of pre-conceived
notions. Therefore, younger members may end up overcompensating in
the workplace to try to counteract these ideas. Other factors in
the family-owned workplace also cause stress, including:
- Gaining respect from non-family employees.
- Dealing with sibling rivalry.
- Wanting to change the business but not being able to.
- Working with non-family employees who try to sabotage the
junior generation’s success.
At the senior level, it’s important to address estate planning
for passing the business from one generation to the next. When a
person dies, the government takes 55% of the person’s estate. Since
most families can’t afford to pay this, they’re often forced to
sell the business. Proper estate planning can prevent this.
Also at the senior level, choosing the right successor can be a
stressful situation. Often, rather than create tension by choosing
between family members, the senior generation will put off the
decision. This can add more stress to the daily routine.
Michaud recommends tackling stress from both a business and a
personal perspective. From a business perspective, she
- Schedule quarterly family business meetings. These meetings
should take place off-site and should focus on the big business
issues related to the family. Main topics of conversation should
focus around estate planning, succession planning and role
planning. To offer each family member development opportunities,
rotate the meeting leader designation.
- Hire an outside board of directors. If you want to bring in new
values, new insights and objectivity to your business, an outside
board of directors is a must. An outside board of directors can
remove much of the emotion from situations, allowing the business
to be more professional and more adaptable to changes. Final
decisions, however, should remain with the family.
From a personal perspective, she suggest the following:
- Simplify your life. Simplifi-cation is all about focus, and
leaving your work life at work and your family life at home. “When
you focus on one task or role at a time, you’re able to separate
yourself from any other task or role you may have,” offers Michaud.
Delegation is also a way to simplify, which includes setting up
your support system and then determining which tasks can be better
served by someone other than yourself.
- Learn to say no. Since family members are often focused on
pleasing others, saying no can be difficult. Michaud advises to say
no gracefully, while respecting the other person.